1 Samuel 18
Jonathan and David
1. Now it came about when he had finished speaking to Saul, that the soul of Jonathan was knit to the soul of David, and Jonathan loved him as himself.
2. Saul took him that day and did not let him return to his father's house.
3. Then Jonathan made a covenant with David because he loved him as himself.
4. Jonathan stripped himself of the robe that was on him and gave it to David, with his armor, including his sword and his bow and his belt.
If I were to ask how many friends you have, you might mention a large group of people, each of whom you call “friend.” However, if I were to ask how many of your friends really know you—heart and soul—I wonder if anyone in that group would qualify. Sadly, genuine friendship has become a rare commodity.
What does it take to be a true friend? There could be no finer example than the relationship between David and Jonathan. Their commitment to a healthy friendship is legendary.
Three things characterized their relationship. First, they had a mutual respect for one another. This often gets lost in today’s world, but the reality is that we can maintain a genuine friendship only with someone we completely respect.
Second, David and Jonathan shared an emotional love for one another. There was nothing sexual or inappropriate about their feelings; they simply rejoiced in their God-given comradery.
Third, their commitment to each other was genuine. These were no “fair weather friends”—their bond withstood even the attempts of Jonathan’s father to kill David. (1 Samuel 23:15-17) Jonathan refused to let anything come between him and his friend.
Think about your best friend. Do you have a mutual respect? Are you aware of an emotional bond between you? Are you both committed to your friendship? One true companion is a blessing from God. (Proverbs 18:24) Praise Him for the gift of your friend. |